A Question of Values
While sitting here, contemplating the world we live in, what it all means, and how it connects to my actions, I’m reminded of a story from my childhood.
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Two friends, Otto and Herman, happened to meet along the road, both lost in their own thoughts about what is important and what guides their actions.
As usual, Otto always gets the first words in.
“You gotta’ have fun in this life. The key to happiness is play and adventure. Be your own boss. It’s through individuality and the freedom to do whatever you want to do that makes for a successful life. Who cares what anyone else thinks about you; if you’re happy then all is well. Don’t let other people’s suffering bring you down.”
Herman listened, as he was used to doing whenever Otto spouted out his opinions and then replied.
“I couldn’t agree with you…less. Sure it’s good to have fun and play and be your own boss, but not at the cost of others. Tolerance and acceptance of others should always guide your actions. Showing empathy and trusting that your decisions will always turn out for the better is truly the path to happiness and fulfillment. Thinking only about yourself will only provide a false sense of joy and contentment.”
Otto just shrugged off Herman’s comments. “How can you feel good at other people’s pain?”
Herman’s answer was short. “You feel good because they know you understand where they are coming from. They feel your support.”
The conversation went on with no real resolution.
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As for me, it seemed that the answer was right there in front of them both. Play, adventure, freedom to do what you want for yourself are very important to how you do things, decisions you make, what you choose to create and expand upon. However understanding others, in what they say and do, and being accepting and tolerant of those that differ from you are of equal importance. You don’t live in a world of your own. As such, within reason, you need to compose your life and actions accordingly. You will have disagreements, some minor, some major, but understanding and the willingness to listen before you act is what fills your inner spirit.
At least, that’s how I want to live my life.
